Part and Parcel of Life..

throughout our entire life..i guess everybody have been meeting tonnes and tonnes of friends..so as for me..some are hell of funny and cheerful..and u know u will definitely enjoy with her..on the other side..they are however, some who is like shits..and the moment u see them ur heart has a pop-up that cant be block..stating..eg. " oh that Fucker" or.."oh that idiot" or "oh that mutha f.." and many more..its not anger that shows it..is that they are like viruses on computer that attach to u...and the anti virus programme will keep popping out notice that something intrude ur brain..and that really sucks..
but then..to think bout it..maybe this prob doesn't lie on those frens..maybe they lie on their background..on their bring ups..or maybe their friends who long time influenced the same thing..just like the lyrics in the song..the asshole song by jimmy buffet..it goes like this.."all your friends are assholes..becos u noe them ur whole life.."watever..
sometimes..seeing this type of people or friends you will definitely feel like erasing them from your life..but if they are your colleagues, your housemates, your neighbour, your religious group fren, your band, your ex-schoolmates or even your dog's partner's owner.. what can we do..we still have to meet them up..and we still need to greet them..there is terms of a WHITE LIE..probably my terms is A BLACK SMILE, A 'SOHAI' LAUGH, A 'MEANFUL BUT KONON NOT MEANFUL' TEASE..and many more..how to escape..
some people especially in working life..have this prob..is not competition..is bout getting attention..this is from experience of my friends who worked already..it seems like they are the flowers that never dies..that is made of plastic..so when we think of plastic..they are FAKE..so from plastic flowers come fakiness..but then seeing those plastic flowers too long..they themselves are full of spider web and dust..and embedded them behind those dirts..that come out the devil that also never dies..
another thing that cross my mind during my semester break is MISJUDGEMENT..misjudgement in general we can classify as misunderstanding is a problem where we mistakenly jump to conclusion or made assumption towards what we foresee..so y midjudgment happen..simply is it is cause by listening to one side of the story..when u listen to one side of one's story..you will think definitely have bad impression towards somebody that actually do not have those thing..they are creating imagination on ur blind head..that is why when we fall prey to such things..tonnes of misunderstanding happen and even involve long term unwanted yet avoidable arguments..and face-off between each other..
therefore we in our life..is very important that we should not listen to one side of the story only..cause maybe the other side have a different so-called version of the story..unless you yourself experience the attitude or behaviour of someone and there is someone came up to you and told u the same thing..misunderstanding is partially avoided..so be clear and not to be blinded by the untrue but looks real facts..
as for conclusion..it is definitely part and parcel of life that throughout our entire life..millions and millions of experience will be gain..whether for ur self preparation..ur knowledge world..or ur moral decision making..life is full of adventure..